graduated high school. smoked a cigarette. gotten so drunk you passed out. ridden every ride at an amusement park. collected something really stupid. gone fishing watched four movies in one night. gone long periods of time without sleep. lied to someone. snorted cocaine. failed a class. been in a car accident. been in a tornado. done drugs. watched someone die. been to a funeral. burned yourself run a marathon. cried yourself to sleep. spent over $200 in one day. flown on a plane. written a 10 page letter. gone skiing. been sailing. lost someone you love had a best friend. shoplifted something. been to jail. dangerously close to being in jail. had detention. skipped school. got in trouble for something you didn’t do. stolen books from the library. gone to a different country. dropped out of school. been in a mental hospital. watched the “harry potter” movies. had an online diary. fired a gun. gambled in a casino. had a yard sale. had a lemonade stand actually made money at the lemonade stand been in a school play. taken a lie detector test. swam with dolphins. gone to sea world. voted for someone on a reality tv show. written poetry. read more than 20 books a year gone to europe. used a coloring book over age 12. had surgery. had stitches taken a taxi. seen the washington monument. had more than 5 im’s/online conversations going at once. overdosed. had a drug or alcohol problem. been in a fist fight. suffered any form of abuse had a hamster. pet a wild animal. used a credit card. gone surfing in california. done “spirit day” at school. dyed your hair. gotten a tattoo. had something pierced. gotten straight a’s. been on the honor roll. known someone with hiv or aids. taken pictures with a webcam. started a fire gotten caught having/going to a party while parents were gone.
STAGE 1:1-3 months = The Honeymoon Stage: Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love”. You share moments, dates, and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking ”This may work out..” and seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.
*If your relationship ended in this stage - Most likely, both rushed into the relationship too fast. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both maybe just need the time to know one another more.
STAGE 2: 4-6 months=The Bumpy Road: Things are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personality not seen before, but still truely care for one another.
*If your relationship ended in this stage - You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet, you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing, it doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility.
STAGE 3: 7-12 months= The Rocky Mountain: You start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguements may occur. Problems with jealously. Over protectiveness may rise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” momments start to decrease, but you feel as if, you’ve “fallin in love”. You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work”, you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself.
*If your relationship ends in this stage - You feel as if you’re hurt- depending on the circumstance. You were so sure that that person was “the one”. You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened; a small issue, grew into something larger that took over what was made between two people. You still miss this person from time to time. You still remember the memories. Being friends may be difficult right away, but over time, you slowly mature up, and learn the reality of it.
STAGE 4: 1 year or more= The Long Road:
1 2 3 4 5 years huh? This person truly means something to you. You are “in love” with this person. He/She made a difference in your life. No one else knows you more than this person. You guys have been through the good, the bad, the ugly, and still strive to make it last.
If your relationship ends at this stage - You feel heart broken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people, but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason for the split, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you can’t think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved” .
I mean, that is how Cas learns. He takes pop culture way too seriously and doesn’t know when to not do something. So of course if he’s just discovered porn he’s going to think that’s how it works in real life. Dean and Sam didn’t really explain to him other wise. I mean the angel just got his first boner, it’s like he just his puberty after 2000 years. There are some new emotions/hormones he’s feeling. And if anything, Cas is based around his emotions. He feels way more than his brothers ans sisters. So for Meg to just kiss him in the midst of Cas just discovering a desire for sex, it makes sense that he’s going to want to reciprocate and act out what he’s learned. Cas really is no different than a human teenager at the moment.
Graduated High School. Kissed Someone. Smoked a cigarette. Got so drunk you passed out. Rode every ride at an amusement park. Collected something really stupid. Gone to a rock concert. Helped someone. Gone fishing. Watched four movies in one night. Gone long periods of time with out sleep. Lied to someone. Snorted cocaine. Failed a class. Smoked weed. Dealt drugs. Been in a car accident. Been in a tornado. Done hard drugs (i.e. ecstasy, heroin, crack, meth, acid). Watched someone die. Been to a funeral. Burned yourself. Ran a marathon. Cried yourself to sleep. Flown on a plane. Cheated on someone. Been cheated on. Written a 10 page letter. Gone skiing. Been sailing. Cut yourself. Had a best friend. Lost someone you loved. Shoplifted something. Been to jail. Dangerously close to being in jail. Had detention. Skipped school. Got in trouble for something you didn’t do. Stolen books from the library. Gone to a different country. Dropped out of school. Been in a mental hospital. Watched the “Harry Potter” movies. Had an online diary. Fired a gun. Gambled in a casino. Had a yard sale. Had a lemonade stand. Actually made money at the lemonade stand. Been in a school play. Been fired from a job. Taken a lie detector test. Swam with dolphins. Gone to sea world. Voted for someone on a reality TV show. Written poetry. Read more than 20 books a year. Loved someone you shouldn’t have. Used a coloring book over age 13. Had surgery. Had stitches. Taken a taxi. Seen the Washington Monument. Had more than 5 IM’s/online conversations going at once. Overdosed. Had a drug or alcohol problem. Been in a fist fight. Suffered any form of abuse. Had a hamster. Petted a wild animal. Used a credit card. Gone surfing in California. Did “spirit day” at school. Dyed your hair. Got a tattoo. Had something pierced. Got straight A’s. Been on the Honor Roll. Known someone with HIV or AIDS. Taken pictures with a webcam. Started a fire. Gotten caught having a party while parents were gone away
Started off as a one night stand. Lingered to a fling. The sirens and the sergeants didn’t seem to mean a thing. Hide your fangs all you want, you still need the blood. Tell us that its different now, you’re up to no good.
Take my hand, show me the way, we are the children that fell from…